Violence Abuse and Violence Prevention Program

Goal of the Program

The goal of the program is to reduce violence against women within the African Canadian community through culturally sensitive and language specific services. The program engages clients through providing information and support on violence prevention, public education workshops/group discussions on relevant issues, supportive group and individual counselling, referrals and peer support services.

Target Groups

• Abused women or women that are at risk of abuse and violence

• Children who have or are at risk of experiencing abuse or have witnessed abuse in their homes

• Men victims or perpetrators of abuse and violence

• Families living in abusive/violent relationships

Activities

• Weekly public education and group sessions on relevant topics

• Supportive counselling sessions in group or individual settings

• Participation in relevant volunteer activities

• Self care, self esteem and self confidence building activities

• Field trips to local agencies that help victims of abuse and domestic violence

• Employment and self sufficiency support programs

• Strategies for removing yourself from abusive relationship

• Referral to appropriate community resources for example Legal Aid, Clinical counselling services, affordable housing services, shelters etc, social welfare programs, food banks, employment services etc.

• Accompaniment to appointments

What is Woman Abuse?

Woman abuse is any verbal threat or physical force used to create fear and control what a woman does.

With all abuse, the abuser has more power than the victim. The abuser is always the one responsible for his or her behaviour. Abusers often use alcohol as an excuse. But the real cause is their need to use violence to control another person.

Forms of Abuse

A woman can be abused in different ways. Following are just some examples:

Physical abuse

• Slapping or biting the woman, or pulling her hair

• Destroying her property

• Abusing her loved ones

• "Caring" for her in an abusive way. This can include things like giving her too much medication or keeping her confined.

• Using a weapon or other objects to threaten, hurt or kill her.

Psychological or emotional abuse

Threats

• Threatening to take the children away from her

• Threatening to put her in an institution

• Threatening to tell friends, family and her employer that she is a lesbian

• Threatening to commit suicide

• Threatening to withdraw immigration sponsorship, or have her deported

• Stalking or harassing her.

Control

• Controlling her time, what she does, how she dresses and wears her hair

• Putting limits on who she can visit or talk to on the phone

• Keeping her away from friends and relatives. This is also called "isolation."

• Not respecting her privacy

• Denying sex, affection or personal care.

Verbal abuse

• Putting her down and calling her names all the time

• Describing her as stupid, crazy or irrational

• Accusing her of cheating

• Attacking her self-esteem in other ways.

Sexual abuse

• Touching or acting sexual in any way that she doesn't want

• Forcing or pressuring her into sexual acts

• Forcing her to be a prostitute

• Not letting her have information and education about sexuality

• Forcing her to get pregnant, have an abortion, or have an operation so she can't have children.

• Infecting her with HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases.

Neglect and isolation

• Not letting a woman see a doctor or dentist

• Taking away TTY, hearing aids or a guide dog

• Locking a woman in the house without a phone

• Not allowing her to take courses in ESL (English as a Second Language).

Financial abuse or exploitation

• Controlling how she spends money, where she works and what property she buys

• Spending all family income including her money or savings

• Using credit cards without her permission; destroying her credit rating

• Forcing her to turn over her benefit payments to the abuser.

Spiritual abuse

• Putting down or attacking a woman's spiritual beliefs

• Not allowing her to attend the church, synagogue or temple of her choice

Forcing her to join or stay in a cult.

Information on abuse courtesy of Education Wife Assault.

For more information, please contact Justina (905) 460-9514 ext. 229